Speaking of attraction, every man’s style is different. Some men focus on being sweet
with women, whereas other men focus on flirting with women. All of these
approaches can work, as long as they are in the normal and effective range.
You just need to know your style and make it work for you.
Your first-hand experience gives you feedback.
Your real-world experience is absolutely necessary to calibrate your qualities,
personality as well as the way you approach dating and relationships to what’s truly
effective and attractive in terms of attracting Ukrainian women.
Reading one thousand dating books can help you improve your dating skills when it
comes to theories, but your first-hand experience is paramount and irreplaceable.
Studying theories can never replace your firsthand, real-world experience because
your own experience gives you real feedback.
Once you have got the feedback, you must think about what went well and what
needs to be improved. Then you calibrate your style accordingly.
Eventually, you will find the right style which optimizes your strengths, interests and
personality. Be sure to maximize your natural talent. For example, if you are
naturally funny, you’d better utilize your good sense of humor while flirting with
women.

Attracting Ukrainian women is an expression of who you are; it’s not something that you do to women.
When you go to the gym and ask the personal trainer for advice, the personal trainer
says, “Just be yourself” – I’m pretty sure you would be very disappointed because
you are obviously looking for professional advice – you want to take action and
improve your fitness.
In that case, ‘Just be yourself’ is bad advice because it doesn’t encourage personal
development.
Please note that in this blog article, I’m not saying ‘Just be yourself’. I mean you
would be well-advised to make full use of your strengths and advantages, know your
preferences and interests & calibrate your personality and traits, thereby identifying
the best style for your dating life.
As I see it, attracting a lady is simply an expression of you. Based on your traits and
personality, you maximize your strengths. For instance, Jackson is a very
knowledgeable guy, so while he is chatting with a Ukrainian woman, he would always
share his knowledge with her. No wonder his new girlfriend is very impressed – she
admires him so much. Admiration leads to attraction.
“What’s your style in dating & relationships?”








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