“I often attract women that are not my type; other women don’t find me attractive,” says Ethan, “What should I do on online dating sites?” Well, there are some universally attractive traits that men need to cultivate.
In online dating, being universally attractive can make a big difference in how you connect with potential matches. But what does it really mean to be universally attractive? It’s not just about physical looks; it involves how you present yourself, your personality, and how well you engage with others. Understanding these aspects can help you stand out and make a positive impression, no matter where you are or who you’re interested in.
Universally attractive traits versus specifically attractive traits in online dating
Most women find confident and healthy men who have social proof quite attractive. Social proof means you have friends, so other people already like you – that means you are a normal and likeable person. Therefore, confidence, health and social proof are universally attractive qualities.
Some women find hardworking and growth-driven men who work long hours each week very attractive because of their own value system, whereas some women find artistic and relaxed men more attractive due to a different value system. These are specifically attractive qualities.
However, within each category (workaholics and artists), men who have confidence, health and social proof are always more attractive. That means if you work 80 hours a week & you have health, confidence and social proof, you are more attractive than workaholics who don’t have these universally attractive qualities. Also, if you are a relaxed artist & you have health, confidence and social proof, you are more attractive than relaxed artists who don’t have those universally attractive qualities.
Interestingly, the majority of men don’t really belong to either category.
In reality, most men aren’t workaholics or relaxed artists. As a matter of fact, most men are multi-dimensional individuals. That means chances are sometimes you spend more hours at work, and sometimes you are more relaxed & artistic. It depends on which aspect of your life/personality you would like to connect with your partner. When you meet a lady who highly values work ethic, you should connect with her via your hardworking side. But when you meet a woman who values relaxation more, you’d better connect with her via your artistic side.
For example, you can convey your career differently. While chatting with a woman who values work ethic on an online dating site, you can talk about how many hours you spend at work as well as your career goals. In contrast, while chatting with a woman who values relaxation, you should talk about how much fun your job has offered & how passionate you are about what you do.
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