A powerful technique that will transform the way you approach Eastern European women

When you approach Eastern European women on dating websites or in real life, you’d better create an ambience that make her feel positive feelings & emotions, so that she will respond to your approach positively, but do you know how this is done?

• A theory that will change the way you interact with people forever:

Many years ago, I was a sales manager in a premium department store. I figured this theory out at that time. Let me share with you a true story first:

A team member is serving a customer who has started to complain about XYZ brand’s jeans: One style has two totally different product codes and two very different designs, so if he purchases this pair of XYZ brand’s jeans online, he wouldn’t know what he will actually receive. But we don’t have the size of the XYZ brand’s jeans that he likes in our store.

When I go to that counter to get some tissue paper, I see that team member and the frustrated customer. Both of them look at me and expect me to help them. Therefore, I begin to serve this customer.

CUSTOMER: “Look at the pattern on the jeans! I can’t wear this! I’m 50 years old!” (The customer is furious.)

ME: “You are 50 years old? I thought you are 35!” (He actually looks quite young.)

CUSTOMER: “Oh. Really? Ah. If I only buy 1 pair of XYZ brand’s jeans, I wouldn’t be able to get the ‘buy 2 and get 20% off’ discount.” (The customer and his adult son both start to smile.)

ME: “ABC brand has the style that you like, so you can buy 1 pair of XYZ brand’s jeans and 1 pair of ABC brand’s jeans & get 20% off because ABC brand is run by XYZ brand.” (I offer an alternative solution to get the sale and solve the problem.)

What I have done is to change his mood, not his mind. Interestingly, his mind is strongly influenced by his mood. As a result, I have changed his mind by changing his mood.

When he is paying for a pair of XYZ brand’s jeans and a pair of ABC brand’s jeans at the register, he asks me, “Why is the ABC brand’s jean much more expensive than the XYZ brand’s jean?”

“Because ABC brand’s designer is more senior.” I said to him.

This customer keeps coming back to buy more XYZ brand’s products. He has become a loyal XYZ brand’s VIP member. He says XYZ brand looks younger than ABC brand. I keep telling him that he looks like 35 years old:

“I thought you were younger than me, and I still think you look like 35 years old. What’s your secret?”

“Maybe fashion is your fountain of youth?”

“Have you read David Sinclair’s book Lifespan: Why we age – and why we don’t have to?”

“You look like British writer Stephen Hussey. He is about 34 years old.”

Another way to change the customer’s mood is to use humor.

Example:

ME: “What size do you wear?”

CUSTOMER: “Sometimes 34; sometimes 36. It depends on the day.”

ME: “Today is Friday, so you wear 36, and the fitting room is here.”

CUSTOMER: “Indeed.” (He smiles.)

…

The customer is paying for the ABC brand’s jeans.

CUSTOMER: “36 is perfect.”

ME: “Yes. It’s the perfect size for the perfect day. Have a perfect weekend.”

• How the above-mentioned idea can transform the way you interact with Eastern European women forever:

When you chat with an Eastern European woman, please remember to manage her mood by adding humor to the conversation. Women like funny guys because a good sense of humor is extremely powerful and very rare!

Therefore, you would be well-advised to watch more comedy shows and learn some jokes. In this way, you will become a humorous person who is engaging and interesting. I’ve found a lot of inspiration from romantic comedies in the cinema. I believe going to the movies often is the reason why I’m able to be have fun conversations with people in general.

“As you change someone’s mood, you are also changing their mind.”