Amazing conversationalists are actually quite rare, don’t you agree? Most people aren’t very good at conversations. A friend of mine told me that he doesn’t really enjoy talking with men because when men are talking to each other, they are always competing with each other. He says he likes talking with women because he can have normal conversations with women – women aren’t always in competitive mode. Better still, Slavic women don’t want to compete at all as they have traditional and conservative values.
Talk like a politician when speaking with Slavic women.
Politicians are very well-trained when it comes to public speaking and answering questions. In 2001, I met a politician’s ghost-writer who told me that politicians use a very powerful technique when they answer difficult questions: They just say whatever they want without directly answering the question.
Understanding this technique has changed the way I answer questions in general and the results are absolutely phenomenal. When I was a salesperson in a department store, I used this technique effectively.
For example:
CUSTOMER: “Is there a 10% off discount only on this XYZ brand?”
ME: “It’s for XYZ brand’s VIP members only. I can sign you up if you would like to get the discount. Are you looking for anything specific?”
In this conversation, two things have happened:
- I wouldn’t say “Other brands have different promotions” because I don’t want the customer to go to other brands.
- My answer includes relevant information without directly answering the customer’s question (because relevant information has been mentioned, my answer still sounds like a proper answer to the customer’s question), and then I immediately ask the customer a question which leads to the next step of closing the sale. That means I’ve changed the subject under the radar and taken the customer in the direction that I want. Actually, in sales, the person who asks more questions has more power.
Allow me to emphasize this key point: Having more power doesn’t mean being condescending. It only means my actual sales approach is extremely aggressive, yet my attitude is very helpful, kind and friendly! When these two totally different elements are combined (a unique pairing), I have more power and can influence the outcome.
The above-mentioned principle not only applies to sales but also applies to every area of life. Sadly, most people do the complete opposite in life: Their approach is weak, and their pride is in their way.
The fact that you are reading this blog post right now means you are not one of them!
After understanding how this idea works, you can start to implement this technique in your conversations with Slavic women so that there won’t be any awkward questions/answers anymore!
Don’t get stuck in your head.
Most men are too analytical when they chat with women that they are attracted to because they tend to overthink situations quite often.
In order to be a wonderful conversationalist, you have to get out of your head. In today’s day and age, most people sit in front of computers in the office all day long & the majority of the population uses digital devices too frequently. As a consequence, a lot of people are stuck in their heads and become too analytical.
If you want to be a good conversationalist, you cannot be stuck in your head. It’s time to get out of your head and feel alive & energized! This is the best way to relax. You can only have an interesting conversation with Slavic women when both of you are totally relaxed.
Speaking of being relaxed, Gala Darling famously said, “Somatic work is so important. We can’t get stuck in the head all the time.” That’s why Gala Darling uses tapping as a technique to improve her life.
If you can’t relax, please find a way to do some somatic work, e.g., tapping, dancing, going out for a walk, getting a massage, etc. These activities will change your physiology, thereby changing your psychology. Don’t forget that physiology leads to psychology. That means when you change how your body moves, you are also changing your feelings and emotions which can strongly influence your behavior as well as your results in life!
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