Worried About Being Rejected? Here’s How To Find An International Relationship

Feeling nervous about the possibility of rejection can be daunting, but it shouldn’t stop you from seeking an international relationship. Understanding how to navigate these fears can open up new opportunities for finding love abroad. It’s very normal and common to have a fear of rejection because fear and anxiety are just emotions. But if you would like to find a happy international relationship, you have to get over your fear of rejection first.

Competence literally leads to confidence in an international relationship

The reason why most men are afraid of rejection is because they aren’t competent enough when it comes to meeting/approaching/attracting women. This is the sad/uncomfortable truth that most people don’t want to know. In order to fundamentally eliminate the fear of rejection, you have to be competent in
this regard in the first place. Otherwise, this problem wouldn’t be solved. (You can only pretend it’s not there.)

So, the best way to get over the fear of rejection is to work on your competence, including your fashion and grooming, your conversation skills, your charisma, your emotional intelligence, your ability to pass every test, and so on. Obviously, this can’t be done overnight. Therefore, it takes some time for you to improve your competence – you need to focus on one area of your competence at a time. For example, you read GQ magazine and upgraded your fashion and grooming this week. Next week you study conversation skills by reading a book on social skills and impact. Then you watch relevant YouTube videos to improve your charisma and body language. Next, you hire a mentor to help you with your emotional intelligence.

After that, you consult with a dating coach to teach you how to pass every test that women give you….
If you are willing to invest in your competence, you will find a satisfying international relationship in record time.

Two quick ways to eliminate fear of rejection in an international relationship

Although improving your competence takes more time, there are 2 quick ways to help you get on the right track immediately.

1) Progressive desensitisation:

In psychology, progressive desensitisation is a technique that psychologists use when they are helping people who have a certain phobia. For instance, if someone is afraid of spiders, the psychologist shows this person a picture of a spider then shows this person a spider on a TV screen, and then shows this person a spider that is far away from them in the same room, and eventually shows this person a spider right in front of them. Gradually, the fear of spiders will disappear in this process.

So, if you are keen to get rid of your fear of rejection, you can practice asking women for directions in the street first. Then you give a woman a compliment. And then you ask her, ‘How was your day?’ Next, you ask her for her phone number/lunch date.

2) Shock and awe:

This approach is the opposite: you approach the most beautiful woman first and realise that the outcome isn’t as bad as you thought, so you feel okay with approaching women. Of course, if you are looking for an international relationship on a dating website like SimplyDating.com, you should have less fear of rejection as women on this dating site already want to find serious relationships with men like you.

If you are ready for an international relationship, be sure to watch this space as we will keep sharing insights into love and relationships as well as ideas about modern dating on this blog.