How to get ready for your very first date with a Ukrainian woman

Are you going to have the very first date with a Ukrainian woman? Be sure to read this article before the date! ?

Do you have a flooding smile?

When you meet your Ukrainian lady, please don’t smile too quickly because you want to give her a memorable first impression. Therefore, you’d better give her a flooding smile: You look at her first, and then you gradually smile like a flood is happening on your face. ?

If you smile too quickly, she would assume that you smile at everyone like that. But because you smile slowly, she feels more special! She feels that she is the reason that makes you smile!

Also, you would be well-advised to use open body language. That means on the first date, if you are going to have drinks with this lady, you’d better avoid holding the glass in front of you because the glass stops you from having open body language – it blocks the interaction to some degree.

I often ask women not to carry a handbag that is placed right in front of them when they go out for a date. A bag that can be carried on her shoulder allows her hands to be free, which is a much better way to demonstrate open body language as well. As a result, she can stand there with her palms open instead of her knuckles – showing her knuckles suggests that she wants the guy to go away, whereas palms indicate “come here” psychologically (this is very subliminal).

Never say “thank you” without mentioning something specific.

We say “thank you” very frequently in daily life. When the salesperson gives us change, we say “thank you”. When someone pays us a compliment, we say “thank you”. However, I would argue that we are not supposed to say “thank you” without mentioning something meaningful. Please let me explain.

When we add something specific to “thank you”, the impact is significantly better:

“Thank you for the good service.”

“Thank you for the compliment.”

“Thank you for your help.”

“Thank you for cooking such a nice dinner for me.”

“Thank you for being such a loving girlfriend.”

Basically, you shouldn’t use the phrase “thank you” alone.

So, when you are on a date with a Ukrainian woman, you can say, “Thank you for coming to see me today.”

Share your sparkling happiness with her.

The most important attraction principle is sparkling happiness, i.e., when you have happiness, people find you very attractive, because a lot of people live in pain and suffer from their problems.

Happiness is actually quite rare, so when you have sparkling happiness, people want to be closer to you – they want to have a part of your happiness. The good news is you can give people happiness for free and it’s easy to do.

Hence, on the first date with your Ukrainian lady, please bring happiness to her! Have a good sense of humor. Give her compliments. Say positive things.

Remember: you can choose your thoughts to some degree. I know sometimes you can’t choose your thoughts because a thought can be a random one without any meaning. But oftentimes you are able to choose your thoughts – it’s really a decision: Just choose to think about positive words in your head and you will have better feelings! This technique is also known as “word power”.

When you have positive feelings and emotions, you start to look at your world differently. That’s exactly when you begin to plan a compelling future. You need a plan before you can make the compelling future your reality.

“Are you ready for the first date with your Ukrainian lady?”